I always used to wonder why do people say have you ever fallen in love or everyone falls in love once in his/her lifetime and all that. May be because everyone experiences that moment of eternal love once atleast. But then to this phrase 'fall in love' doesnt really justifies the feeling. Why you gotta fall, why cant you rise in love??????
Anyways thats not my point...I am not here to debate like historians whether Monalisa is gay or girl, whether Himalayas gonna disappear or they r eternal. My point is and have actually found out why this phrase 'fall in love' is as popular as Metallica or Nirvana.
This 'fall' in love is as great as humpty dumpty's fall. When you love somebody and that too to the hilt you start owning that person. And thats where you go wrong my dudes and dudettes!! And when you know that the person whom you love will be with you day in-day out, night in-night out,24X7....believe it or no you are misguided. Then you expect all that jazz the way you want... If humans have brains then lovers, spouse or your companions definitely have hearts. So just let 'em be ya.... You can love them but you cant live them.
Ever wondered howcome everything is picture perfect @the beginning?? The logic is simple:-
Because you dont know each other that well that you start spoting the differences. Or to be simpler, you are still in a young realtion to know that person.. And which is why everything is damnnnn rosy and damn pretty @the beginning.
Then comes the stage where you start knowing each other. Those hang-outs, small time dates, talking over the phone, tete-a-tete,rendezvous etc are surely to look forward to. You take out sweet times from your ass burning days and have a gala time with that person. Mind it!! This time of your deal is still safe because that P.R works well.
And as we proceed and so called 'as the it feeling blossoms' you suddenly start getting jerks. And these arent huge or big issues as global warming or population explosion but petty...real petty. But you gotta agree that you enjoy this phase of your deal..You get this feeling, 'arrite some real stuff is happening dude'!!
Actually this is the warm up of devastation. You do it because you like it real. Eventually this becomes the routine and worse is yet to come.
Okay after we know, we love, we admit, we want, we like...comes I dont, Why me,I cant, I wont, Why cant you. Isnt it funny. To me it is....
That pallete which was full of colors is now all dried out!! You want colors but the bottols are empty. You wanna blend it well but resources are scarce. So the question of painting a picture perfect is out and so out.
And you get so buzzed or busted that you give up and tear the idea of making a picture..forget about the idea of a 'perfect picture' or to put it right a 'Picture Perfect.
********RIP THE LOVE*******
Anyways thats not my point...I am not here to debate like historians whether Monalisa is gay or girl, whether Himalayas gonna disappear or they r eternal. My point is and have actually found out why this phrase 'fall in love' is as popular as Metallica or Nirvana.
This 'fall' in love is as great as humpty dumpty's fall. When you love somebody and that too to the hilt you start owning that person. And thats where you go wrong my dudes and dudettes!! And when you know that the person whom you love will be with you day in-day out, night in-night out,24X7....believe it or no you are misguided. Then you expect all that jazz the way you want... If humans have brains then lovers, spouse or your companions definitely have hearts. So just let 'em be ya.... You can love them but you cant live them.
Ever wondered howcome everything is picture perfect @the beginning?? The logic is simple:-
Because you dont know each other that well that you start spoting the differences. Or to be simpler, you are still in a young realtion to know that person.. And which is why everything is damnnnn rosy and damn pretty @the beginning.
Then comes the stage where you start knowing each other. Those hang-outs, small time dates, talking over the phone, tete-a-tete,rendezvous etc are surely to look forward to. You take out sweet times from your ass burning days and have a gala time with that person. Mind it!! This time of your deal is still safe because that P.R works well.
And as we proceed and so called 'as the it feeling blossoms' you suddenly start getting jerks. And these arent huge or big issues as global warming or population explosion but petty...real petty. But you gotta agree that you enjoy this phase of your deal..You get this feeling, 'arrite some real stuff is happening dude'!!
Actually this is the warm up of devastation. You do it because you like it real. Eventually this becomes the routine and worse is yet to come.
Okay after we know, we love, we admit, we want, we like...comes I dont, Why me,I cant, I wont, Why cant you. Isnt it funny. To me it is....
That pallete which was full of colors is now all dried out!! You want colors but the bottols are empty. You wanna blend it well but resources are scarce. So the question of painting a picture perfect is out and so out.
And you get so buzzed or busted that you give up and tear the idea of making a picture..forget about the idea of a 'perfect picture' or to put it right a 'Picture Perfect.
********RIP THE LOVE*******
No comments:
Post a Comment